Chopra's Key to Freedom
by Dan Skeen
We're a goal-oriented society. For some it's a second
beemer, a million dollar home, executive power or sending the kids to Harvard.
Sadly, many never achieve these goals. Tragically, many do, only to find
they've climbed the wrong mountain.
The reason, says new age guru Deepak Chopra, is we are
feeding false appetites while our real hunger remains famished. We’re working over time to buy luxury goods
that prop up our status more than satisfy our souls.
Chopra maintains that ‘ego needs’ prompt us to fulfill
society's shallow expectations rather than our own deeper ones. His message
echoes an old Sex Pistols warning: Keeping up with the Joneses is
ruining our lives.
What's lacking, says the author of The Seven Spiritual
Laws of Success, is a sense of connectedness or commonality: "It's a
state of awareness that really says that I am you, you are me, and all this is
me. And I'll just divide myself into so many yous. And, if I can get beyond
that, I will really feel secure. Because … all my insecurity comes from my
skin-encapsulated ego that separates you from me."
Recognizing our core affinity as humans, that we all stem
from the same collective energy or "quantum soup" and return to it upon death
(a common notion in Hindu religion), gives us the confidence to be
different while on earth. Instead, we
struggle to meet advertisers’ ever escalating standards of success.
Understanding our universal connection, Chopra says, defeats
all suffering. "The tradition I belong to says there are only four or five
reasons that human beings suffer. First is, they don't know who they are.
Secondly, they grasp and cling to that which is impermanent, and therefore
illusory. The third is, they recoil and run away from and are afraid of that
which is impermanent and illusory. The fourth is, that they identify themselves
with their skin-encapsulated egos – which are total frauds. And the fifth is,
they're afraid of death. And, in fact, all these five causes of suffering are
contained in the first cause. You don't know who you are. If you find out who
you are, it will be a ticket to freedom."
Beneath all of Chopra’s language lies a simple concept,
self-knowledge. It’s a message that
we’ve heard from many of the great western thinkers. Remember, Shakespeare's Polonius advising his son, "To Thine
Own Self be True." But truly knowing who you are and what you want out of
life is a tough challenge, requiring us to shake off some deeply ingrained
In words that would freeze the hearts of financial planners,
Chopra suggests we shift our focus from the long-term horizon.
"I think if one is more process-oriented than
outcome-oriented, you're likely to achieve a great deal of success. It means
I'm walking this road because I want to get there. But if you really ask me why
I'm walking this road, what the real reason for walking this road is, I really
love walking this road. And, of course, if I do that, then I will get there …
[but] my energy is not consumed by the anxiety of getting there."
How can we get more enjoyment out of the moment instead of
banking on a utopian retirement? By simply doing what we love, Chopra says.
He urges us to ask the question: "If I had all the time
in the world, and all the money in the world, what would I do? How would I
express myself and how would I use that expression of myself to serve the needs
of the web of life of which I'm a part?"
Start from, ‘What would I do if I had all the money and time
in the world?’ Do that, and you will have all the time and the money in the
Of course, there must be some element of pragmatism in your
planning. Chances are surfing or golfing full-time won't put food on the table.
The trick is to find a sustaining purpose that aligns your interests with your
"If you're enjoying what you do, if you're part of the
ecosystem, if you provide a service that benefits people, then success is a byproduct … a reflection of your
creativity, and your ease," Chopra says. "It's not dependent on hard
work and driving ambition and exacting plans. On the other hand, it's created
by having truly a purpose in life, a vision, a commitment to the vision, the
enjoyment of the journey and a connectedness with people."
If you can live this advice, you may find all those fruits
you once longed for (the beemer, the house, etc.) within your reach. But now instead
of being the sole objects of a misguided desire, they will be the fringe
benefits of a live fully lived.
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